There's absolutely nothing wrong with the friends zone!
Being someone's friend first is the ultimate kind of relationship. If nothing happens beyond that, then it was just not meant to be. Bottom line: If someone is uninterested in anything beyond a friendship, they're just not into you romantically. At least not yet. It takes time to connect and bond with someones heart and mind. Especially if you want to be in a committed relationship with this person. Once YOU open up, become vulnerably sensitive honoring the divine masculine and divine feminine within your being, this unification of energies will attract this person to you. Until then, keeping a one dimensional perspective will keep you stuck in that same thought patterns, thus without any room for inner growth. If you are having a difficult time trying to connect with your love interest this is a legitimate sign that you are not yet mature enough, or sensitive enough to attract an intimate lover. If your heart and mind are not open, vulnerable and sensitive this will certainly block you from finding the kind of intimate relationship your soul is longing for. In retrospect, your lover is your best friend. Your lives are intimately linked and intertwined on a molecular level--on a soul level. You are also connected on a physical human level. Everything that you are lacking within will undoubtedly come to surface if you are not sensitive. If you are not exuding the attributes you imagine in a lover, then the cosmos will not align and bring this person into your life. Prepare yourself. Do the inner work. Be ready. Be the kind of person you would want to be in a relationship with. Connect with yourself first and watch your world transform <>
<3 Valiance
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